Signs he’s not ‘The One’

Its been a while since i updated, i'm a very erratic blogger obivously. I write the posts then forget to post them until till many months later.  I'm sure we all have at some point dated these sort of individuals at some point in our dating 'careers' so to speak. Below are some of the more obvious signs, atleast in my experience:

1.        He never introduces you to his friends

2.      He never wants to meet your friends or family of course

3.     He takes you to his family home and tells you to hide when his Mom is coming….hide where exactly?

4.      He always has ‘business’ calls where he needs to leave the room

5.      He loves you so much that he forgets to feed you when you are with him….you should be able to live on love after all.

6.      He borrows money from you to return after a week and then you have to hound him to get it back after months which of course results into a huge argument

7.       He wears red shoes! Yes you read correctly RED shoes

8.       He thinks Ibonics is being posh…buh=but;  haz usually…was quite baffled for a while as he is from the northern part of the country.

9.       He never supports you especially if it differs from his own opinion 

10.   He is very unreliable, ‘I’ll be right there’ and 3 hours later he hasn’t shown up.

11.    You end up apologizing even though he’s the one that’s at fault…sigh

12.    He’s an expert at emotional blackmail…

WOW, I could go on and on because the list is endless. I’m just happy that I managed to escape, LOL and I’m stronger from the experience.

So please feel free to share your own experiences with not ‘The One’.